The ULTIMATE Guide to Queer Slang

Ready to amp up your slang game? Whether you’re diving into the LGBTQIAP+ community or just curious about the colorful lingo that pulses through queer conversations, you’re in the right place. Here’s the ultimate rundown of queer slang that’s bold, brazen, and everything in between.

1. Yasss

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More than just a yes, it’s an enthusiastic stamp of approval. It’s the sound of the crowd when the outfit hits just right.

2. Kiki

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A gathering where gossip flies and laughter dominates. It’s where friends come to slay and spill.

3. Read

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To tell someone about themselves, with precision and in detail, like an open book filled with uncomfortable truths.

4. Werk

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To do something with exceptional skill and fierceness. It’s not just about success; it’s about making it look effortless.

5. Fishy

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Describing someone who looks extremely feminine, or stereotypically girly. It’s a look, darling, not a smell.

6. Snatched

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Looking perfectly put-together; every element is on point, from wig to wardrobe. Nothing is out of place, and everything is grabbing attention.

7. Slay

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To succeed powerfully, particularly in fashion or performance. When you slay, you aren’t just winning, you’re owning the moment.

8. Realness

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Authenticity that can’t be faked. It’s about convincing portrayal, whether of glamour, grit, or anything in-between.

9. Drag mother

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A seasoned queen who mentors newer queens. It’s more than guidance; it’s an initiation into a glittering world.

10. Gagging

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Overwhelmed by awe, often because of someone’s incredible performance or look. It’s so good, it leaves you speechless.

11. Trade

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An attractive man, usually straight-acting, who might just swing your way. It’s the guy you don’t bring home to mom.

12. Beat

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Makeup applied flawlessly. Your face isn’t just ready; it’s weaponized.

13. Hunty

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A blend of honey and c*nt, it’s endearing yet biting—a term of friendship among those who can throw and catch shade.

14. Tuck

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The art of concealing one’s genitalia, essential in drag. It’s about illusion and comfort (well, mostly illusion).

15. Spill the Tea

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To share the gossip or truth. It’s not just talking; it’s unloading secrets.

16. Boots the House Down

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A phrase to emphasize the intensity or greatness of something. It’s not just amazing; it’s earth-shatteringly good.

17. No Tea, No Shade

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No offense intended, but here comes a potentially offensive opinion. It’s the prelude to a polite read.

18. The Library Is Open

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A warning that you’re about to start reading people, and no one’s immune. The truth will be told, and it might sting.

19. Clock

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To notice or point out a flaw in someone’s appearance or argument. It’s seeing through the façade.

20. Cisgender

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Not slang, but essential vocabulary. It describes someone whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth. It’s about knowing who’s in and who’s out of the gender struggle.

21. Queer

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Once a slur, now reclaimed as an umbrella term for sexual and gender minorities who aren’t cisgender heterosexuals. It’s defiance in a word.

22. Throwing Shade

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The act of giving a subtle, often cleverly veiled insult. Think of it as the sniper’s approach to critique.

23. Living

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Expressing oneself authentically and vibrantly. It’s not just surviving; it’s thriving in full color.

24. Vogue

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Striking poses with fierce precision, inspired by the iconic Vogue magazine’s model poses. It’s a dance style that’s a staple in ball culture.

25. Ballroom

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Refers to the LGBTQIAP+ subculture that involves dance, performance, and costume competitions, highlighting vibrant, competitive gatherings.

Speak Out and Stand Proud

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With these 25 terms, you’re not only equipped to navigate the queer landscape but also to embrace and celebrate the rich diversity it offers. This slang does more than define; it empowers and unites. So, use it, own it, and keep the culture alive and kicking. Let’s not just exist, let’s make our presence known.

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