This Man Is PREGNANT, but His Younger Sibling Keeps Calling Him a Woman! Now He’s Asking if He Should Punish His Younger Brother…

This is the story of a young man named Ezra, who was just 18 years old and already facing a challenging situation many of us will never have to face. Let’s take a look.

Guardianship Challenges

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Ezra is a trans man, which means he identifies as male even though he was assigned female at birth.

He has a half-brother named Matthew, who is only nine years old.

But because of some serious issues with their mother and stepfather, Ezra became Matthew’s guardian.

Matthew’s Hurtful Remarks

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Now, Matthew’s behavior has been causing Ezra a lot of stress.

Just a couple of days ago, while Ezra was driving Matthew home from school, something happened that really upset him. 

A Source of Stress

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Matthew said something incredibly hurtful to Ezra. 

The Painful Incident

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He told Ezra that he was actually a girl because he could have babies.

This was hard for Ezra to hear. He knew he was a boy and tried to explain that to Matthew, but Matthew kept saying that Ezra was a girl.

It was like Matthew didn’t understand or didn’t want to understand.

Identity Struggle

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The worst part was that Matthew wouldn’t stop telling everyone that Ezra was his sister.

He would even say it loudly to people they met.

This was a huge problem for Ezra, because he wanted to be recognized as a boy, not as a girl. 

Overwhelmed by Stress

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It hurt him a lot when Matthew kept calling him his sister and made Ezra feel stressed and upset.

The Weight of Being Pregnant and Dealing With Family Challenges

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On top of all this, Ezra had another challenge – he was 26 weeks pregnant.

But after the incident with Matthew, Ezra felt like he couldn’t handle everything anymore. When he was alone in his room, he had a breakdown. 

Admitting Struggles

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He realized that he was struggling to deal with Matthew’s behavior.

Even though Matthew had only been living with Ezra for a short time – less than two months – Ezra was already feeling like he had enough.

It was really hard for him to admit that to himself.

Contemplating a Tough Decision

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Ezra felt so many emotions. He felt guilty for thinking about giving up custody of Matthew.

But he was also angry at Matthew for making his life so difficult.

He knew that Matthew was just a child, but his actions were causing Ezra a lot of pain.

It was becoming hard for Ezra to look at Matthew without feeling angry and resentful.

Seeking Help From Therapists and Legal Experts

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Ezra knew he needed help. He was talking to a therapist, but he was also talking to legal experts to understand what he could do next.

It was a big decision, but Ezra was seriously thinking about giving up custody of Matthew.

He felt like he was at a breaking point and didn’t want to be constantly stressed and miserable.

Ezra’s Plea for Understanding and Support

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Ezra wanted people to understand that he wasn’t a bad person.

He was going through a tough time and trying to do what was best for himself and Matthew.

He was feeling so many emotions – sadness, anger, and frustration.

He had cried a lot in the past two days, more than he had in a long time.

Understanding Ezra’s Dilemma

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He had originally moved out of his parent’s house to escape the problems he faced there, but with the ongoing situation with his little brother, it really felt like he had jumped out of the frying pan and into the fire.

Empathy and Advice

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Ezra was unsure about what to do next.

He was looking for advice and support, so he turned to the Reddit community.

He wanted to know if he was wrong for considering giving up custody of Matthew. 

Recognizing the Challenges of Being Trans and Pregnant

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Redditors weighed in on Ezra’s complex situation with empathy and understanding.

They recognized his challenges as a trans individual and as a guardian to his brother.

Many empathized with the fact that being trans is a tough journey, made even harder by having an unsupportive family and being pregnant on top of everything else, too.

But even so, they did not approve of his decision to give up custody of Matthew.

Understanding Matthew’s Behavior

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One user said, “You’re not a jerk; however, he’s 9, had a rough childhood, he’s still a little child. You are pregnant; you are growing a baby. Biological female functions, you don’t identify as female. Fair enough, but that’s a pretty big thing for a 9 yr old to wrap their head around. Be forgiving to the little dude and yourself. Focus on the love, and try to end days on a quiet good note, and with an I love you.” 

A Childhood Perspective

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Other users said that Ezra will be a jerk if he follows through with his plans to give up custody. “I sympathize with you but that poor boy being tossed around is going to be traumatizing for him as well.”

A Positive Turn

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An unexpected update on the situation arrived a few days after the original post, and it was a positive one.

Matthew returned home from school and offered a heartfelt apology. It turns out his earlier hurtful behavior was due to anger.

A classmate had teased him for not having both parents around.

Ezra, understanding the pain all too well, accepted the apology and apologized in turn.

Healing and Reconciliation

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Now they’re on the path of healing, with their first joint therapy session coming up. Ezra loves his brother and is optimistic about the future. A happy ending after all.

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